Lust and Julia Gillard
June 24th
Naturally, I should be posting about the current political happenings of the Australian government and how we’re all about to go AWOL because a politician worse than K-Rudd has just been promoted. But no, instead, I’m going to talk to you about lust and how, really, it is an awesome feeling. It gets the best of us and I’m going to share with you the reasons why lust is so goddamn awesome. 
I have had my fair share of lust. I see a hunk in the street, the first part of my body that reacts would be my vagina. “HELLO SEXY!” it screams and my lips turn up in a smirk and a little smack of my chops as the fantasies fill my mind before I’m moving on again – focused once more on the task I had originally set out to do. Oh yes, lust gets us all – I don’t care if you swear you’re a god-loving nun; you have felt lust. Don’t lie to me! Anyway. Lust is simply the emotion that is basically making you aware that, “There is a sexy person in front of me and I want nothing more than to take them right there, right now.” Most of us have more self control than that and thank god…
Most people consider lust a terrible thing. They believe it leads to sluts, skanks and other such obscene people. Hmm, no, this is not true. Lust leads to hot, steamy sex between lovers, between strangers and between people in general. Lust is a feeling that allows us to bond and unite whether it be for a lifetime, a night or even a few hours. Lust lets us know that on some level, we are all still attracted to each other. Its the feeling that reciprocates love, but doesn’t hold you to it for the rest of your life. When you love someone…you’re never going to stop loving them. But lust, lust is like a quick fix of love that gets you want you want, what you need and without the repercussions of feelings afterwards.
Lust is what allows you to live sexually and realise when you do, in fact, find the love of your life. How are you supposed to know if the shoe fits if you don’t try it on? How do you know thats the right key for that lock if you don’t test it? How do you know they’re the right one if you haven’t had past experience? Most would argue you just “know” that they are the right one. But I would have to disagree. I met the love of my life, had a hot steamy make-out session with him and THEN decided we were totally right for each other. My lust for him allowed me to see that yes, yes he was my Knight in Shining Armour and that we were meant for each other (even though it didn’t turn out that way haha…) and that we SHOULD live a long and happy life together.
You can argue against this all you want but sex is important in a relationship. If you aren’t sexually compatible then the whole relationship is going to die. Lust allows you to sort out these compatibility issues before they’re even an issue. You shouldn’t feel afraid of being judged if you’ve tested out a couple of possible suitors with the DIRECT INTENT of perhaps entering a relationship with him if you are sexually compatible. I’m not saying I condone one-night stands etc…if that is all they are intended to be, however, if you believe you may have a relationship after satisfying your lustful needs, then I am fully supportive.
Lust is the sneaky supporter of love.
Would you not agree?
7 Responses to Lust and Julia Gillard
i definantly agree.
although i am in a long relationship and have only experienced sexual encounters with the one person,
i think lust brings together all those feelings you cannot express, it makes you feel good, makes your lover feel good, whats better than making them happy, but i also agree it is important not to base relationships on lust, because there is much more to it.
Sex is great, and its something to strengthen a relationship and personal barriers like self confidence and trust.
i have only experienced lust after the relationship is formed and this was an interesting take.
this is most likley a pointless post but im bored and this is interesting =]
xx
LOL! bitch this was seriously interesting to read. you should honestly write books for a living, fuck your good in wording shit. Sooooo… i guess you and i experienced this “LUST” when we saw a few of them titans polayers?? hahah love you xoxo <3
I love the technical words you use April. You’re always so in depth about anything you want to write about and it really is quite amazing.. but then so are you
Love it babe x
Agreed that sexual compatibility is important in a relationship, but this blog post sounds more like “you need lust before love”? Correct me if I’m wrong, but if I’m right about the gist of your entry, that I’d have to majorly disagree with. You may be lucky that after the making out session you guys decided you were perfect for each other, but it is on the verge of being slutty if you try to seek your perfect counterpart by making out with lots of guys (lust). And I hope lust wasn’t the only thing that made you think he was your Knight in Shining Armour, since that would mean you overlooked other qualities significant for your compatibility with each other.
Well, I do believe in lust before love certainly however, I’m not saying you have to consider sexual compatibility as top priority. When I met Jordan, his humour attracted me first, then his personality and then…his good looks. As I said, I don’t condone one night stands for the sake of finding your counterpart…there obviously needs to be a connection there before the lust can effectively evolve into love.
The mere act of simply going around making out with guys trying to find your sexual counterpart is ridiculous and unfortunately, some girls do, do this.
But no, that wasn’t what I was saying ^_^ You need to be attracted to the person in other ways before the lust can really take control.
For me though, I find that I have no lust for someone unless I like him already (it’ll stop at, ooh he’s good looking), but I’ll admit I have started mini crushes based on looks and the general feeling around him. 
I think love gives me stronger lust.
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